Getting A Reading

Interruptions, Blocks, and Barriers, Oh My!

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Starting a consistent meditation practice is one of the hardest things I have ever done. When I began my spiritual path, I tried several types of meditation. The meditation I settled on to try was simple. I read it in a book and was happy it did not require the mental disciple of some esoteric traditions. Instead, it was a guided journey into the heart. The heart is the seat of all the wisdom of the universe and the center of you. I was very interested in getting all the insight there. So, I made a sacred space in my home with an altar, incense, sacred items, and representations of the elements, and I sat before my altar to settle and breathe. 

That would not last long.  

The phone would ring, the husband would need to find something, and the baby would cry. And on and on. Everything got in the way. My frustration grew to the point of almost giving up. Almost. But before I admitted defeat and looked forward to quieter times in my elder years, I made one last desperate attempt. I made a vow, aloud, to the universe, myself, Spirit, and whoever was listening: “I am going to do this no matter what.” And I meant it.  

I mentally reviewed all the worst-case scenarios of what could happen while I did my few minutes of meditation. And I thought I would not stop even if there were an emergency. I would not stop even if someone were bleeding on the floor. I would not stop even if I got a call about the demise of a loved one. I would not stop even if my home were in flames. I would continue my meditation. I would complete it to the end, no matter what.  

Then the next time I sat down to meditate, there were no interruptions. No calls, no husband interrupting, no baby crying. Nothing. I could sit in silence and seek out the universe’s wisdom hiding within my soul. It was like magic. I have not been interrupted during meditation since, and that was over 20 years ago.  


I have thought about this a lot. Why did this work? I work with so many people that are changing their lives. With each change comes a barrier to cross.  

Two common energetic barriers can get in our way when we try to make a change of personal habits or more significant changes like career and relationship changes.   

With non-spiritually based changes, it usually is the universe barring the way. With everything we do, every place we put our energy and attention, we are conversing with the universe. So, if we give our attention to something we do not want, then that thing will keep coming into our lives. If we change it up and start giving our attention to what we want, we can make that positive change.   

For example, you may want to eliminate coffee from your daily habit but previously have given coffee a lot of attention. You may find after eliminating all coffee from your house, people will offer you coffee, send you coffee as a gift, and so on. Coffee becomes in your face and on your mind constantly, just when you are trying to stop the habit. You must be strong enough to think of something else and consistently divert your attention from it to tell the universe you are no longer interested in coffee. 

The above is a simple example, but there may be something you can think of you tried to change, and it felt like the universe was conspiring against your change.   

It is not a ‘test.’ It is simply the universe’s response to the previous conversation that you loved coffee, and the universe always provides. However, it takes a while for the universe to catch up to the change we are making. Therefore, when you change to not wanting coffee, please do not give it any attention; keep focusing on your new daily habit of tea or your replacement beverage. The universe will eventually get the memo, and you will no longer constantly have your past desire for coffee in your face. 

The power of the universe is fascinating and extraordinary and is more than just the Law of Attraction. Universal laws influence our lives, and we can work within the laws to create a different life once we understand what they are and how they work. But for now, know that making mundane changes is a matter of giving attention to the things you desire and not the things you do not.   

Mundane changes like career and relationships are small potatoes compared to shifting consciousness. Or consciousness is made up of many aspects, but the one typically in charge is the ego. The ego has controlled us for our adult lifetime. Many of us have made our life choices to support what the ego wants. If the ego wants status, we will go for a career that will give us status. If our ego thrives on low self-esteem, even if we want a status job, it convinces us we are not worthy of it. The ego can call the shots, from what kind of car we drive to who we marry. When the ego is in charge, it controls us and stops us from following Spirit.  

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Meditation is often the first step to being guided by Spirit. Unfortunately, this shift upsets the ego. When we start a meditation practice, it is not just the universe we need to convince, but we must negotiate with our ego to ensure that our lives will accommodate it.   

The desire to follow Spirit usually happens before we have dealt with our wounded selves. Our childhood traumas, abuse, or neglect, are held in the ego, making it extremely hard to negotiate with an ego hanging on to control. The ego holds on to wounds and uses them to stay in power.   

I did not know any of this when I started my spiritual practice. I just wanted to find the wisdom to heal my sorrows.   

My wounded ego was not having it. My ego was none too pleased to be ignored while I sought to pay attention to Spirit, my intuition, or my soul in meditation. So, it created barriers, external and internal. The interruptions and distractions were an attempt to keep me from listening to a voice other than it.   

Not knowing what was going on, I took the hard line and let my ego know I was serious. I convinced myself it did not matter what my ego did to stop me; I would not stop. Therefore, I got to meditate in peace.   

After meditation, the ego still showed up to negate everything I did with plenty of snarky comments and examples of how foolish I was, but the teaching on how to deal with that is a chapter for another time.   

For now, ask yourself: Are you willing to shift into the power of spiritual guidance, or do you want your wounded ego to continue running your life?   

If you want Spirit to be your guide, are you willing to make this change no matter what?

by Janet Kadow, @janetkadow,,, 6198664405,

Monday Messages with White Eagle

We meet this Monday (10/24/22) for messages that will shift our perspectives and can even change our lives. We may discover the hidden meaning behind events and take another step forward on the path of our heart’s desire.  

We will gather on Google Meet (via the app, link, or phone) at 1pm Pacific Time/ 4pm Eastern Time.

White Eagle loves interacting with the curious! Bring your questions!

This is a Q & A with my Spirit Guide, White Eagle. He will first share a message for the group and then give a personal message to every attendee.

Getting a reading from Spirit is different from any other type of reading. It brings an energy of unconditional love that heals, awakens, and inspires. When I channel White Eagle, it creates an energy field to open the heart and ease the mind, so the soul begins to remember.

It can be an awakening experience for those new to the path and those on their path for decades.

This is an open class for all! Please join us!

Monday, October 24, 2022, at 1pmPacific Time/4pm Eastern Time. (Duration is 60 to 90 minutes estimated)

$22 sign up via Venmo or PayPal @janetkadow 6198664405

I may record the session in part, i.e., the opening statement. Yet, any identifying information of the attendees will not be subject to public use. I ask all attendees to agree to the confidentiality of our group.

Sign up by Sunday by 11pm PT.

The link and call-in information are sent out to all those who signed up on Monday morning before 11am PT.

Contact Janet with any questions at 619-866-4405

The Sweetest Moment

This will just take a moment of your time

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Giving Myself a Break

When I started a regular mediation practice, I didn’t know what I was doing. I just needed a break. I desperately needed a moment to myself where I could just be and breathe.

Here is a quick rundown of my life at the time. My son was still just a toddler at three years old. I had had a recent bilateral mastectomy and was going through chemo. I was working full-time. I visited my mother twice a week in her Alzheimer’s facility – she was beginning the later stages of the disease. My husband (now my ex-husband) was going through a severe depression. If I hadn’t taken these moments to go within, I don’t know how I could’ve gotten through it. I believe taking these moments kept me from having a full-on breakdown.

I didn’t want to reach nirvana, be more spiritual, calmer or have any goal in mind. I just wanted a break. So I started to take those breaks in the slices of moments between other moments in life. The spiritual path may not be for you but having a moment to yourself is for everyone. It may become the sweetest moment of the day for you. It demands nothing of you. It requires no special training or discipline. It is simply a moment to breathe and be.

I can’t remember where I got the idea or if my guides (ever at my side even before I knew they were) were prompting me with inspiration.

This later became the foundation of my teaching. My students were people a lot like me with young children, jobs, and family demands of all sorts. So I taught them this meditation method and a way to make the time for themselves that they had been denied for years. No matter where you are in life, you can do this, and with just a few minutes a day, you can find the peace and strength to keep going through all of life’s worst difficulties.

A Time & Place for You

How can you make time for yourself when even going to the bathroom is not without interruption?

Take a moment to think about your day. There are pockets when you are not interrupted. At first, for me, it was the car. It was the only time I was truly alone. I would drop my son at daycare and go to work. I could park at work and wait. Taking my moment in the parking lot. I trained myself to sit in the car before jumping out. It was hard to break the habit of rushing into work, but with practice, I reminded myself to turn off the engine and just sit. I could do the same on days when I wasn’t working at the grocery store parking lot. If I forgot to do it in the morning, I could do it when I got home before leaving the car.

I still have the muscle memory habit of not getting out of the car immediately once parked. If this could work for you, I recommend it as a great starting point.

For many of my students who didn’t leave the house daily, the bathroom was their spot of solitude; if even that was impossible, they could take a moment in the shower. Find the place where you can just be and breathe.

The Moment Belongs to You

Now that you have the place and know the times you are usually in that place, what do you do there?

Nothing, my friend, just do nothing. For five minutes, just let your mind wander. Just breathe. Just settle. Just be. Try not to move or fidget too much but if you need to, let it happen. Do not put your attention anywhere but wherever it wants to go. Let your mind have a moment to run free. You may at first find your mind to be very busy. Let it be busy.

You can close your eyes or keep them open. You can listen to meditation music or sit in silence. The object is only to allow yourself time to do nothing. Give yourself the gift of nothing. No need to achieve a goal, do a chore or help someone. Your boss, your child, and your spouse aren’t there. It is just you. You are with yourself. All you need is to be silent in stillness with the power that is you. If you like, set a timer to keep from worrying about the time, and let yourself be.

Spending Five Minutes with Yourself is Life-Changing

Don’t believe me? Why don’t you try it for a week?

For seven days, use those slices of time to be silent and still with yourself, letting your mind wander and just being you. That is okay if you can’t do it every day in a row. Even skipping a day or two, will still be effective in helping you. Once you have done it seven times, think about how you like it.

How do you feel about it? Do you look forward to it? Is it yet another ‘have to’, or is it something you feel you need? Let it go if it is yet another thing on your ‘to-do’ list. This is not meant to add daily pressure. On the contrary, it is intended to relieve the pressure. So keep it up if it feels like an oasis of respite from the harsh daily demands of living.

You will never regret taking this time. After being present for you for a bit, maybe a few weeks, you will see how your life changes and makes room for you. Even if you already do a structured and disciplined mediation practice, I recommend allowing the mind to do as it wishes for five minutes daily. It is a beautiful experience.

Your world shall shift into a place of ease with each moment of silence and stillness. * @janetkadow * * 619.866.4405

Ascended Life with White Eagle

White Eagle will tell you the story of his soul’s journey from lifetimes past.

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The story of his lives. These stories will be like no other teachings he has done. They shall reach back into ancient memory, showing his growth into ascendence. They are the stories of how he learned to guide the force of love through the violence and chaos of external powers and the despair of internal conflict. We will hear how he evolved from an ordinary person into an Ascended Master in each life so he may show you the way of mastery.

What does it take to ascend consciousness and walk through life in the sweetness of grace? We have the potential to live as the ancient masters did. The avatars of divinity who could defy time and space, manipulate the laws of physics, and save the starving with mana from heaven. They were the healers, the holy ones, and the teachers that became voices showing the future. They show what the future is like when humanity reaches its potential. The Great Masters have said, “I am doing nothing you can’t do.”

You will see the way to your transformation by hearing stories of ancient ceremonies, personal sorrows, and desperate journeys that made White Eagle an Ascended Master. You will listen to what he learned as he sat in the presence of sacred teachings with holy ones of eons past and learn how to apply these gifts in your own life.

He will speak in detail about what he learned from the master avatars throughout the ages. Ceremonies from Dianic traditions, healing techniques from the Andes, and the course of his spiritual awakenings throughout every incarnation.

He walked with Christ, the Peacemaker, and other ascended wise ones from every continent. This is the first time he will be sharing stories and ancient ceremonies with the public. 

In turn, it may ignite your own memories of times when you too sat with holy ones in ceremonies to learn the ways of the masters. When you too had gifts of healing, miracles, and divine power. The memories you have suppressed to fit into the social structure of your birth culture. These memories your soul has kept safe and hidden from even your own awareness. These memories lie in wait for the perfect time to emerge. Now is the time. We are coaxing them out and welcoming them to be seen again as we hear of these sacred experiences White Eagle shall share.

Join us! As White Eagle brings the beauty and wisdom of storytelling around the fire to our modern world.

*NEW* You can join one evening at a time!

Not sure if this will be for you? You can join us as we go and pay per class session! Just sign up by the Saturday before the class you wish to enroll in. $40 per session use Paypal, Venmo, (@janetkadow biz acct.)

See info below for signing up for the full course or 4-week blocks!

This is an extended series of live channels with White Eagle. We will have 3 blocks of 4 sessions each. The sessions will last about 90 minutes. They will be recorded, so you do not have to be present in every class. There will be an open Q&A at the end of the story for discussion with White Eagle. Class participation is encouraged.

We will begin on June 13th at 5pm Pacific Time/8pm Eastern time on Google Meet. No video connection is required. You can join us by phone, Google Meet app, or link. The recordings will be sent out the day after the session via email in mp3 format on Google drive.

The first block dates: June 13, 20, 27 and July 11 (sign up due date June 11)

The second block dates: July 18, 25, August 1, 8 (sign up due date July 16)

The third block dates: August 15, 22, 29 and September 12. (sign up due date August 13)

Each block is $123 to be paid by the Friday before the start dates. You can do any of the blocks of sessions without doing the others.

If you would like to do all 3 blocks and pay at once, there is a discount and early registration bonus price of $350! But you must sign up by midnight June 11.  

Let me know if you would like to use Paypal, Venmo, (@janetkadow biz acct.) or Credit Card for your sign-up., 6198664405 (call or text)

This is the first time White Eagle has publicly shared his stories, so I have very little information about them at this time. I will be listening and learning with you all, and I am thrilled to take the adventure of his lifetimes with you!

Check out White Eagle’s first published story, “Meeting at the Lake” on Substack.

What are Fake Spirit Guides?

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Understanding False Spirit Guides, How to Spot Them, and Be Rid of Them.

What are Spirit Guides?

Everyone has Spirit Guides. Spirit Guides can be angelic, ascended masters, ancestors, or star nations. They are the Spirit beings closest to the Divine. They are considered one with God, yet they have some personal identity separate from God. These Guides are beings of wisdom that have the assignment to be with you throughout your life have such a profound unity with divinity that only a tiny part of their identity makes them individuals with personas and personalities. Since they are at one with the Divine, it is their nature to follow the Sacred Laws, and they cannot break them, under any circumstances, ever.

What are False Spirit Guides?

They are Spirit entities that are not at one with divinity. They have their origins and agendas as Spirit Guides do but have no need to follow the spiritual laws. They like to pretend they are Spirit Guides. I don’t have much information on them as far as why they exist. They may be in this physical realm because they have been welcomed by people who want to connect with Spirit but are untrained and have no desire to honor the Sacred Laws.

These low-level entities are not to be feared, and they only have the power that people give them. They are not demonic or evil. They are just false. But those who listen to false entities feed their energy. Giving them attention and speaking with them allows them to exist in our world. When you follow their advice or use them for readings, you are vulnerable to them taking energy from you. They will attach themselves to you and make you think you need them.

They do a great job imitating Spirit Guides for those untrained and who do not know what authentic Spirit Guides are like. However, the danger of working with false Guides is how they create difficulty, powerlessness, chaos, and exhaustion in their people. I personally have witnessed this in psychics that do not use the structure and boundaries of the Sacred Laws, practice clear intentions, and seek to serve their ego instead of the highest good.

You need to be sure of your intentions when working with Spirit. The ego wants success, fame, and fortune. Spirit wants to help you with happiness, health, and well-being. Spirit Guides are here to help you with your personal life to create the experiences you wanted to have on Earth before you were born. We do not know those; they are part of the Great Mystery. But the purpose our soul wishes to express in this life typically conflicts with what our ego wants.

If becoming a rich and famous psychic or healer appeals to you, you should know that your authentic Spirit Guides will not help you with that. The desire for fame, wealth, success, or status is ego-based, and Spirit does not cater to the ego. Spirit assists us in many ways and all the time but will not feed the need to be better than, have more than, or be more powerful than others. Many famous psychics got where they are by using pretend or fake “Spirit Guides.” These false Guides are entities not in harmony with divinity; therefore, they do not have to follow the Sacred Laws nor help you. Instead, they find people open to Spirit and will try to communicate with them. It is your discernment, intentions, adhering to the Sacred Laws, and asking your real Spirit Guides for help that can protect you against them.

What False Spirit Guides Do

Love bombing

The dangers of working with non-Spirit Guides are slow in manifesting and so subtle that it seems like you are really connecting with your Guides. It is like an abusive relationship. At first, there is the love-bombing phase. Everything they tell you centers around how great you are, how important you are, and how powerful you are. This feeds the ego and can lay the foundation for a messiah complex. I have seen many untrained psychics fall for this. Although authentic Spirit Guides begin with messages of love, their love messages heal and mend your wounded self and are not to make you feel exalted above others.

Suppose the messages you are getting hint that you are so important that the world depends on you for its healing, growth, or evolution. In that case, this is not from a real Guide. Not only would a real Guide never say such a thing because it would activate your ego, but they would not say such a thing because it would never be true. You do have unique gifts to offer the world, but if you do not or cannot give those gifts, the fate of humanity will not suffer. So, again, no real Guide would even hint at such a thing.

Amazing but unnecessary predictions

The next phase in the pretend Guide relationship is the predictive phase. False Guides will give you great information that is astonishingly accurate. For example, these entities can predict where and when the next natural disaster will be. On its face, this sounds like it is imperative to saving lives. You may believe that sharing information of this nature is essential, but that is wrong. It only bolsters the psychic’s reputation and will not save anyone. What government would give authority to the warning of a psychic ten thousand miles away? Since it is of no use to those affected by the disaster, this is meant to impress people, not help people, at best, or at worst, it is intended to create fear in the audience.

People who share global predictions and dire warnings about the fate of humanity do nothing to assist the highest good and only create chaos and fear. This is the hallmark signature of false Guides. Which also includes doing celebrity readings and political predictions. If psychic information is not personal and offered with integrity, it is given by fake Guides and will have karmic consequences for the channel. Counterfeit Spirit Guides love to spread fear, and fear of the future fate of humanity is an easy topic to do that.

False Spirit Guides will be excellent about giving details in readings that most psychics miss, like the color car a person drives or details about what they did the day before the reading. These may not be the most important messages, but they are not designed to be; they are meant to impress you as the reader and your client as the listener. This phase is intended to build trust in your pretend Guide.

Once you start believing and trusting everything your false Guide tells you, you feel very important to the people of the Earth and Spirit.

These predictions will make you feel important and necessary to these changing times. You are meant to think, “It is a good thing I am here to save the world before it collapses.” This phase of your false Guide relationship has the underlying tone of the second coming or saving the world.

The phases I’m outlining can be overlapping as needed to reinforce your trust and dependence on the false Guide. For example, perhaps you falter in your belief that you are the second coming or the greatest prophet of the age. They will tell you that humanity will end without you and give you experiences that validate you as a prophet. Or suppose you stop wanting to communicate with them. In that case, they will make you believe that ignoring them is not an option.

Manipulation with fear or judgment

The third phase is when the danger kicks in. The dangerous part is that the pretend Guide was never in it for you but for them. They only wanted your attention and energy to see how far they could take it. If you are genuinely convinced you have enormous power and prophetic insights, they begin to manipulate you. This is the fun part for them. Remember, they only want attention and energy, so any way you react is good as long as you are reacting. Their manipulations begin subtly. You will get you a task to do (or else bad things will happen), or they will tell you some bizarre information that is very far out there. You will do and believe anything they say since they have convinced you that they are your Spirit Guides and given you great information in the past. Now you trust them more than anyone else in your world.

This will continue for as long as you go along with it. Over time, the tasks will become more challenging to complete. The information will become more wild and unrealistic. But they will give potent energy of urgency to push the importance of believing them. Authentic Spirit Guides never give the feeling of ‘do this or else’ or a sense of urgency; those energies are fueled by fear.

 Collapsing of spiritual trust and burnout

The fourth phase is a collapse of spiritual trust which usually includes burnout of psychic ability. Once the false entities have run you around long enough and fooled you to exhaustion, you will go through a phase where you realize your Guides cannot be trusted. Most people don’t consider it was never their authentic Spirit Guide. You could still believe that it was your actual Guide that lied, manipulated, and fooled you. You may have no awareness that it was never your Spirit Guide. You will shut down your connection to all Spirits and reject all the messages.

For some people, this stage is crushing. It only comes about after destabilizing finances, health, and relationships by listening to your fake Guides for a long time. Suppose you followed their manipulations for years and changed your life based on their influence. In that case, it can be like removing yourself from a cult, an abusive relationship, or a dysfunctional family. It will be liberating and healing, but there is so much damage to be repaired.

These phases can last months, years, or decades. The longer it goes on, the more it creates chaos in your life and psyche. These false entities can make the real world feel like it is no longer essential, and your life can unravel.   

Now that you know the dangers of working with false Spirit Guides, I will explain how to spot them and the most common ways they behave that a real Spirit Guide would not.

How to Know When it is NOT Your Spirit Guide

Trust your feelings

First of all, when working with Spirit, trust your feelings. If your Guide feels good to connect with, and the sense you get from them is loving, then it is your Guide. False Guides never bring loving energy; they can’t because they don’t hold love. If you don’t feel any energy from your Guide when you ask to connect, ask them to give you love and feel it before continuing with the connection. If it feels loving and healing, it is always your Guide. If it feels a bit strange and they cannot give you love, dismiss them and do not engage with them again.

You have the power in this relationship. No matter what kind of Spirit, any Spirit must leave you if you tell them to go. But if you feel they have the power over you, they will not leave no matter what you say.

Physical humans have dominion of the Earth, which means that no energy or entity can stay here without our permission, invitation, or request. Likewise, any disembodied energy cannot function here without a person to give them leave. This includes your Guides, angels, ancestors, or negative spirits, like ghosts or low-level entities.

Some people simply do not have feeling sensitivity toward Spirit or energy. But, even if that is true for you, you should be able to get some kind of good feeling from them if they are your authentic Spirit Guides. It could be a feeling of emotional well-being, positive thoughts, or images. So, pay attention to anything that comes to you mentally, emotionally, or physically when you ask to speak with your Spirit Guide.

It’s in the message

The following way to spot them is through their messages. Actual Spirit Guides have a particular way of phrasing and supporting us. They never make us feel pressure, fear, anxiety, or worry. They are cautious in our interactions with us not to say or do things that cause any negativity. The Sacred Law of Love mandates that they cannot do anything to make you have fear or feel shame. So they will not be judgmental but support you unconditionally in everything you do and help you with everything you want to bring you happiness.

Fake Guides say things in a subtly judgmental way. Suppose you unconsciously expect God to judge you about something. In that case, they will use it to sound more ‘spiritual.’ They imitate spirituality based on your limited belief system. If you think Guides will boss you around or try to tell you how to behave, the fake Guide will embody that.

Such as, you may expect Spirit to not approve of swearing or indulging in a vice. Fake Guides use that presumption to manipulate you. When they tell you what you are doing is ‘bad,’ there is the burden of shame or feelings of insecurity. They are saying you are not good enough. This is a powerful way to keep you in thrall to them.

They encourage you to judge others by saying people are of a ‘low vibration’ or some term to let you know that you are more ‘ascended’ than another. This activates your ego and keeps you from listening to your true Spirit Guides, who would never encourage judgmentalism in you. 

Are they lying?

Authentic Spirit Guides must always tell you the truth. The Sacred Law of Truth requires they always have to tell you the truth. Yet, they do not have to tell you the whole truth. What they say and the way they say it must always be true. This can be confusing because they can omit or not answer anything they choose. They especially won’t answer if the answer will create fear, anxiety, or worry. Or, if is not for you to know the answer right now.

Pretend Guides do not have to tell you the truth, and once they have you believing them, they will lie to you a lot. If what you are getting is not the truth, it is not your Spirit Guide.

But do pay attention to the exact question you asked because Spirit Guides can answer literally. If you ask them an unclear question, the answer may not be clear, and you can assume it means something that it doesn’t. I always suggest writing your questions and answers to ensure the language holds what you think it means. We can be very lax when it comes to communications, and our Guides might be teaching us to pay attention to our phrasing and our words to be clear and get clarity.

Trust and Faith with True Spirit Guides

To work with the true Spirit Guides, we must act on faith. They will never explain themselves. If you ask why they are saying what they are saying, they will not answer. For example, suppose you feel a nudge from them that you need to leave for the store right now. You may ask or wonder why now? But they will never answer. They will not tell you why now. You can choose to leave or stay. If you act on faith and go at that moment, you will find out why they said ‘leave now’; it could be a synchronistic event or even a miracle. It could even just be an answer to a request you made.

The connection to Spirit Guides is one of faith. Faith comes one quiet step at a time. Once we feel our connection is clear, we build trust in them; once we have trust in them, we can act on faith. We need not always do, or ever do, what they suggest to us. They will not hold it against us or punish us if we don’t follow their guidance.

With real Spirit Guides following through on faith brings simple joys, unexpected gifts, and can even bring miracles. Just make sure you listen to your genuine Spirit Guide, and you will see it is a great way to live.    

Fake Guides will fill you with a sense of urgency to do as they say. It may come as a feeling that bad things will happen if you don’t do it, or they may even say something to make you afraid of the consequences if you do not follow through. Even something simple has a feeling of ‘do or die.’ False Spirit Guides answer ‘why,’ and the reason is always fear-based and urgent. When you do what they say, it will never bring a miracle. However, some synchronicities could occur, but that is only during the beginning of your connection.

If the message feels good positive, and life-affirming, then it is your Guide. On the other hand, it is not if the information feels dire, urgent, or judgmental.

A quick list of what true Spirit Guides offer is:

  • They are always supportive and never negative
  • They will never make you feel afraid
  • They will always be kind
  • They don’t judge
  • They will never tell you what to do or make demands on you.
  • They are here to serve YOU, not for you to serve them.

False Guides will do the opposite of the above list after they have created a foundation of trust and are confident you will do what they say.

The list to know if you are connecting with a fake Guide is:

  • They will flatter and build you up
  • They will tell you things you didn’t ask about yourself or others
  • They will demand you do things for them
  • They will assert themselves as the authority over you
  • They will lie to you
  • They will give you dire warnings and other messages that make you feel afraid

All the fake Guide wants is to control you to make you do its bidding. This is an abusive relationship, and usually, those who have not yet healed their wounded ego are susceptible to this type of relationship with Spirit.

Many of your natural-born channels are likely to not have developed the personal discipline and awareness it takes to keep from attracting these entities. One can be a great psychic but lacks spiritual awareness or self-awareness; this is a difficult and often dangerous way to live.

How do you keep fake Spirit Guides away?


Know why you want to connect. Know your hidden intentions. Dive deep into your psyche to get to the bottom of your reasons for wanting a connection with Spirit. One way is by knowing what you think will happen once you become a great channel or what you want to get out of connecting with Spirit.

The best intention is to state that you want to get messages for your highest good to help you on your path to your highest potential. This is a standard and common intention for any interaction with Spirit. It is solid as stone. Your intention is your best protection if it is your true intention.

Some may just say the words but not have that intention. If you say the words without meaning, they leave an opening for any entity to take advantage of you.

Spirit knows when you don’t mean it.

Suppose you have that intention in place but are still getting unwanted spirits. In that case, you need to become aware of what is your hidden intention. Being aware of what you want and why you are doing this may seem simple, but we don’t know ourselves as well as we think. So know yourself, and you will know your intention.

A simple way to find the intention you may hide from yourself is by imagining what your life would look like if you were already an excellent channel for Spirit. What happens then? Take some time with it. What do you envision? Are publishers or talk shows calling? Are you famous? What would it be like to be a genuinely great channel? If you see a vision of fame, wealth, or notoriety that lights up your heart, it is a true intention. There is no problem with wanting success in any field. Yet, if it is just to be so great it exalts your status, then Spirit will not help with this and it leaves you open to fake Guides coming in.

The best way to know if this is your true intention is to be brutally honest with yourself. Ask yourself, “if I could be a great channel and never got any credit or recognition, would I still do it?” Would you? Would it be worth it to do it just for you?

Your endgame is your intention. It is where you direct your energy every time you channel. If your energy is constantly focused on the talk show circuit, you will not be a great conduit for healing, insight, or inspiration. Your messages may amaze people for a time. Still, then the eventual and inevitable burnout from working with pretend Guides will bring it to a crash.

Another way to soul-search your intention is to remember who inspired you to try channeling your Guides. Did you see a channel or read channeled material that made you want to explore it further? Who was your inspiration, and what about their message interested you about channeling? This is a great way to discover more motivations and goals for your channeling because it shows you what they were doing is what you want to do. Once you know that, you see another intention on why you want to channel.

Then ask yourself if what they did were not possible for you, would you keep going?

Your reasons, motivations, and intentions direct your path and call forward your spiritual allies, physical and non-physical. You could have several intentions and many reasons to walk this path. Get to know them to get to know yourself, and then no being can exploit your hidden agenda. An awakened mind is a powerful protection and much needed as you walk the way of the mysteries.

The Sacred Laws

The untrained and unaware are susceptible to pretend Guides because that person can be ego-based and/or does not follow the Sacred Laws of Will, Truth, and Love. If they are not in spiritual work through humility and to serve the highest good or through a pure desire to heal and find wholeness, they can get lost to fake Guides.

Genuine seekers on the spiritual path are not ego-based. They wish to explore the mysteries driven by a healthy curiosity of life, the courage to face their traumas and fears, and a desire to experience their true potential. Those who attract and listen to pretend Guides have many psychic wounds that could cause personality disorders, addictions, or lack self-awareness about their own agenda. If there is a hidden need to feed the ego, it needs to be known before attempting to connect with Spirit.

There are many ways to get past the barriers of psychic trauma. Counseling, sacred ceremonies, emotional support, and medical intervention could help. It is beneficial to explore these options if you are getting nowhere with connecting to your Guide but get fake Guides instead. Spirit can offer a great deal of healing, but only the adept has enough faith and trust in Spirit to get the healing needed from them. Be responsible for yourself. I know of one psychic school that would not train anyone without extensive psychological evaluations. Awakening can bring up past traumas, and the unbalanced mind is not ready for awakening.

Following the Sacred Laws, as Spirit does, will help you connect with your Guides and only your Guides. The Sacred Laws will also protect you along the path of awakening. I will give a brief overview of the Sacred Laws, but this list is in no way comprehensive. You may wish to continue to contemplate and learn them in mediation or in conversation with Spirit to better understand them. Know that following the Sacred Laws for any reason will be life changing.

The First Three Sacred Laws

The Law of Will

Also known as the Law of Free Will or the Law of Non-Interference. This Law states that Spirit must be asked before giving assistance. They cannot intervene without your request and permission. Applying this to your life means not reading anyone without their permission, not sending healing or giving aid to anyone without their asking for it, or jumping in to give advice unless asked. Waiting to be asked ensures you are in harmony with how Spirit works. The only caveat is the duty for care, such as medical and rescue workers. As you can see, there are a lot of gray areas that would need some discussion with your Guides, or you can do mediations that could help bring clarity if you wish it.

The Law of Truth

The Law of Truth, also known as the Law of Omission, states that Spirit Guides cannot lie, but they do not have to tell the whole truth. To align with this Law, think about what would it look like if you did not ever lie? You can avoid telling the truth by not answering or answering in part, but not by lying. This could be life-changing in a very powerful way. The additional benefit of it is that when we speak the truth, the truth will always be revealed to us.

The Law of Love

The Law of Love states that Spirit cannot do or say anything to make you afraid. This is why it can be difficult to see or hear them. They do not want to do anything that may startle you or freak you out. They cannot cause fear, nor do they do anything out of fear. This is a powerful law to practice. What if you did everything out of love, If all of your actions were an expression of love? What if you did nothing out of fear, guilt, or obligation? If every single thing you did was a joyful expression of love, how would that change your life?

Following the Sacred Law of Love is an extraordinary way to live. When I first started this practice, I took a look at everything I did, and if I couldn’t do it out of love, I said no to it. But, sometimes, even if I didn’t love the idea of doing it, I wanted to anyway. So, I would examine why I wanted to do it anyway. Like attending a party, my introverted self is not interested in parties, yet I would feel obligated to go. So, I had to get to the love to go. To shift from obligation to love, I would think of how I love the person I was going for and their happiness of seeing me. Then I could say to myself, I would love to see that, and that feeling of love would carry me through the evening. It changed my feelings of party-dread to joy. I no longer would feel obligated to go but happy to go. This changes the total energy around anything you do and can make for an easy, drama-free life.

Choosing to live within the Sacred Laws will assist in aligning with your Spirit Guides and connect you even deeper to their wisdom. As long as you strive to work with these laws, you will be protected from any false Guide. You need not be perfect and consistent with the Sacred Laws; as long as you are sincerely striving to align with the Sacred Laws, you are protected.

Spirit’s Intention

You can also find protection from aligning with Spirit’s intention for working with you. They have an intention as well. Their intention is to help you. That is all. They have been helping you your whole life. That is all they want to do. They want to help you be happy, healthy, find love, be inspired, and even help you find a great parking space.

Your Spirit Guides don’t want to help others or save the world. Instead, they are there for you.

Give yourself the loving attention the way Spirit does. Be primarily interested in getting help for you to be guided, supported, and healed to fulfill the potential you were born with. These things are in perfect alignment with Spirit. Do not come to connect with Spirit to impress others gain success or status. But simply, privately, and humbly work with Spirit to assist you for a better life. This is an extraordinary intention, powerful, healing, and loving.

Ask Spirit

The simplest way to get protection from fake Spirit Guides is to ask your Spirit Guides. Then, just say a quiet prayer to keep any and all entities that do not support you in love away from you.

Ask your Guides and only your Guides to be the only Spirits you connect with. If you don’t have much experience working with Spirit, it is hard to trust that they can do this. But once you know how much they can shift energy, support your life, and help you with everything, it is easy to trust they can and will do this for you.

They can protect you easily. They can help you in miraculous ways. But, because of the Law of Will, they cannot do anything for you unless you ask.

Just ask.

Your Connection to Divinity

We are born with a connection to divinity. Our connection to divinity is the source of love, creation, and life that guides our path through this world.

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Most of the time, we are unaware of our connection because it never demands our attention; it doesn’t even require acknowledgment or needs gratitude. The divine Spirit that guides us is soft, quiet, and gentle. It is not loud nor obvious. Its existence is not even provable in the three-dimensional world. The divine Spirit that guides you since you were born is represented by Spirit Guides and loves you absolutely and unconditionally.

Our Spirit Guides share, advise, and guide in the most subtle ways, and they have been doing all your life. When we first try connecting with Spirit, most of us try too hard. They are already communicating with you, so the first step is just acknowledging how they are already doing it.


At one point or another in your life, you have gotten a sign. A thing that happened that was too much of a coincidence or such an unusual event that it caught your attention and made you feel better. A sign can come in so many ways it is hard to list them all here. But they usually come when we have doubts or uncertainty that is causing some worry in our lives. They coincidentally happen just as you have a distressing thought. For example, you may be worried about your health situation, and as you are thinking about it, a butterfly comes so close to you you can’t ignore it. Or you were grieving someone you lost and feeling very concerned about how they are doing on the other side. Then, just at that moment, their favorite song comes on your playlist. A sign is a communication through the physical world that Spirit is with you; Spirit is saying it will be all OK and that what you are worried about will resolve in the best way possible.

Spirit can move energy and create tiny changes in this world when you ask for help and need it most. Even if you don’t remember asking for help or thinking you need help.


Confusion is caused by illusion, a barrier to the truth, and can even be toxic over time. Understanding what is behind a situation can help you get through that illusion barrier to heal and move on with your life. Understanding and self-awareness come from insight and can be very healing.

Insight is that ‘a-ha’ moment. A thought that comes out of the blue to awaken you to a new way of thinking. In an instant, it can show you old detrimental patterns holding you back. The gift of insight can come at any time, but typically it comes when you are in a calm state of mind, like waking from sleep, driving, reading, going for a walk, or taking a shower.  

Spirit shows the truth, and the truth Spirit shares is always healing and is offered only when you are ready to accept it.


Inspiration comes from Spirit. When you have an idea for an art piece, invent a new gadget, or get a great vision of how to deal with an old problem, Spirit is the source that inspires you. This is why innovative and creative people make great channels; they are already doing it!

Inspiration comes at those exact peaceful times that insight does. To get the message from Spirit, the clutter of mental activity must be low, and emotionally you must be calm. It is not required to have an empty mind to get insight and inspiration, but the mind must be relaxed, and the emotional body cannot be in turmoil. Meditation practices can help with this but are unnecessary once you see how you get in a relaxed state of mind.

Think of how you feel when watching T.V. or driving the car. Where does your mind go when showering or going for a walk? Your mind relaxes and watches, your body is at ease, and your emotions are not focused on painful experiences. This is the state of mind in which even the least spiritual person can get what they need to be guided by Spirit.


The simple answer is to just ask. Spirit can not do anything for you unless you ask; you can use prayer, candles, or just a cry for help. You can say it out loud, in your mind, or as a whisper in private. There is no wrong way to ask Spirit for help, and there is nothing you should not ask Spirit for help with. Ask for help with everything. Spirit does have rules on what they can and cannot do, but leave it to them, and they will help in every way possible to give you a life you wish to live.

Although Spirit does not need praise or acknowledgment, the way to get more support from them is gratitude. In working with Spirit, gratitude is the magic sauce; it opens their way to do more for you. They do not need anything from you, but gratitude opens your energy field to receive more. It is a law of the universe that we get more of what we wish when we feel gratitude. So use gratitude in all of your requests, thank them before receiving what you want, thank them for your day, and thank them for all you have. Through gratitude, you are paving the way for their ability to offer more help in your life in every way.

Janet Kadow offers a unique approach to spiritual awakening by using Spirit Guides and divination modalities. Teaching the intuitive and psychic arts of channeling, healing, and divination she is driven by her intensive work with Spirit offering classes, private training, and readings.

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The Powerful Art of Channeling

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Beginning January 3, 2022! A comprehensive class to teach you everything you need to know about channeling the highest wisdom and healing from Spirit. For seekers with all levels of connection to bring clarity and profound healing on your spiritual path. This class is for you if you want to channel for personal growth, get powerful new information to share with others, and/or enhance your healing power.

Why do we channel?

Channeling the ancient ones, the ascended ones, and the angelic ones to bless and guide our spiritual path awakens us to the infinite wisdom of the ages. These Divine beings will teach, heal and guide you to the life you have been hoping to live.

Spirit Guides are healers, teachers, and seers from other heavenly realms. A Spirit Guide can be of your soul lineage and be known to you as an ancestor. You may have a Guide from the Angelic realm. Guides can also be former humans who once walked the Earth and mastered life in the physical world. Finally, Spirit may show itself to you like an animal who shapeshifts to honor you with specialized wisdom.

Your Spirit Guides in any or all these forms hold the essence of Divinity, what I consider to be ‘next to’ God the creator, and must follow the Sacred Laws, working in harmony with Love, Truth, and Divine Will. Whatever form your Spirit Guide takes, know that it is one to help you in your life at every turn, in every stage of your life, and for everything you need and want.

What does it take to have clear and consistent communication with your Guide?

Know that you are already connected. We are all born with a connection to Divine Spirit. Yet, our life experiences, traumas and wounds, and ego development keep us from awareness of Divinity. For most people, the link to Spirit Guides is primarily unconscious.

This course will help you have clear and unmistakable communication with Spirit. If you already communicate with Spirit but want to get more out of their messages, go deeper and get more profound wisdom. If you want to grow to confidently share messages with your clients and students. This class will give you all you need to know to make your connection the best it can be.

You may be struggling to get more consistent and deeper communication with Spirit. This class will also give you the tools to get new innovative channeled information, utilize their healing powers for yourself and others, and become a teacher of their wisdom through writing and speaking.

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What kind of person do you need to become to be an excellent channel for Spirit?

The answer is any type of person you want. But you must know a few things to align with their energy, adapt to their wisdom, and be open to receiving without filtering the extraordinary messages and energy they can offer. They have no demands to fulfill to make you good enough to communicate with you. They do not need you to do anything or be any type of person for them to be of service to you. So the shift you must make is not about being good enough to channel them it is about being open enough to allow the channel to grow.

Spirit only wishes to assist you. However flawed you are, however dysfunctional your life may be, whatever you do that is harmful to yourself or others, makes no difference to their desire to help you or communicate with you. To them, you are perfect. They love and serve unconditionally. So whatever you want to do and however you wish to behave is O.K. with them.

They are at your service. If you are unhappy or unhealthy, you may ask Spirit to guide you to simple ways to build a life of happiness and health. If you are unsatisfied with your career, they may inspire you with new ways to have a fulfilling vocation. If your relationships are in dysfunctional cycles, they will offer new ways to approach your loved ones and bring new relationships that bring healthy connections into your life.

Once the channel grows, you will learn to use the information with integrity to get revelationary, profound, and deeper insights.

For this, we will work with the Sacred Laws, some simple structured practices to connect deeper and ways of shifting to harmonize with Spirit. As we work through the 12 weeks of “The Powerful Art of Channeling” course, you will find they can help you with all of the above and more. Your life will never be the same once you open communication with your guides in integrity and non-judgment.

If you are interested in becoming a professional channel, this course will teach you how to get previously unknown information that will transform the lives of your audience. If you work with clients for readings and healing, you will find your insights and energy has a new level of power you were not utilizing before. If you want to teach others to channel, you will learn all the connection aspects to help your students.

Exploring the power of channeling is an exciting adventure to embark upon with humility and respect. Understanding how to use this power by following the Sacred Laws ensures that you are always clear in intention and communication to serve the highest good of all who seek help from you.

Channeling without training or understanding how the Divine beings operate can be detrimental to our well-being and even cause psychic burnout.

Anyone can channel, and everyone has a link to Divinity, but can be vulnerable to wrong information and non-divine beings interfering with the connection. This is more common than you think! I have created this course to assist all who connect with Spirit to keep their connection with Divine Spirits clear and supported by their extraordinary unconditional love.

Join us starting January 3, 2022, for a twelve-week course in The Powerful Art of Channeling.  

You will learn

*How to open to Spirit and discern what is them and what is ego.

*How to connect in a variety of different ways, signs, messages, and mediation, full-body connection

*How to get beyond simple messages and get in-depth, detailed information

*How to ask the right questions the right ways

*How the sacred laws affect the answers you get

*How Spirit can heal yourself and others

*How to teach others to channel

*How to write channeled messages for articles, social media, and books.

*How to be sure you channel your spirit guides and not a hostile entity.

And more…

January 3 – March 21 once a week on every Monday for 12 weeks.

5pm Pacific Time/8pm Eastern Time via conference call.*

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The last day to register is December 31, 2021, for the regular prices listed below:

$350 to register by 12/31/21 for all 12 weeks

$123 to pay for 4 weeks at a time due the Friday before each 4-week block

$40 to pay per week due the Friday before each class.

This will be the transformative journey of a lifetime.

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*All Sessions are recorded in MP3 format and are sent to registered students the day following class. You will have daily practices and weekly email check-ins you can get weekly private support sessions at a discounted rate as long as you are in the class ($40 per 30 mins). This class is designed for all levels. It will help those of you who have a good connection but need help getting great information, for those who need the motivation to keep your connection consistent, and for those who don’t think they have a connection to Spirit but really want one. 

From Awakening to Ascension – The Path of Mastery

How we progress on our spiritual path from seeker to wise master has always been a fascination for me. As with most things, I asked my teachers in Spirit for insight on this topic, and they gave me what I share with you here.

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We are in an incredible time of awakening. I hear many speak of ascension, becoming five-dimensional beings and having enlightenment. We are on an accelerated path to higher consciousness, but we must be cognizant and have respect for the process of ascending to the promise this time holds. There is a great deal of discipline to master, and many things yet to know so that you may fully embrace the potential this time has to offer.

Below are the levels of awareness and mastery that we each pass through to embody the vision and potential of ascension.


Instinct picks up energy through cellular receptors to signal dangers and potential dangers. We naturally use it when we are in unfamiliar surroundings to get a sense of the place and if we are safe there. Most people claim to have and utilize instinct. It is a common trait among all life on Earth to help with survival. However, instinct can be enhanced or ignored by conscious thought.


When we pay attention to instinct, we can develop it into intuition. Intuition can give us more information than instinct. While instinct will tell us if we are safe or not safe intuition can tell us if the energy is supportive or not supportive. Intuition tells us if there is tension in the room, what mood someone is in, and is attuned into subtle signals and changes in the energy field. By paying attention to our intuition we begin to develop our receptors through more pathways than cellular. We can develop an extra heightened awareness of feeling, hearing, knowing, and seeing and utilizing them for more information. Many describe their intuitive senses as ‘having a feeling’ or ‘just knowing’ what is being made aware to them. Trusting your intuition helps to build your psychic senses.


While instinct will tell you if the place you are in is safe or unsafe, and intuition will help you sense if it is supportive or not supportive, the psychic sense will let you know what will happen before you go into the place. The psychic senses can jump through time and space to predict the future. It is like sending a time traveler ahead to scout the energy. Without training and discipline, the psychic senses may pick up random signals that can be confusing like a radio antenna picking up static. With discipline and training the psychic senses become more reliable and accurate leading to a profound awakening.


Once the psychic senses can be relied upon as accurate, we can awaken to a heightened state of being. In this state of awareness, we may connect with places and beings outside of our physical reality. We can do this through altered states of consciousness such as meditation and journey, and we can connect with other realms such as the angelic realms, the dimensions of the star nations, and of course, connect with our Spirit Guides with ease. Being guided by wise masters of other domains and getting the keys to the mysteries of the universe requires not only to trust in the accuracy of your psychic sense but acute self-awareness and understanding of your beliefs.. When we gaze into the wonders of the heavens, our lens must be clear and not clouded by judgment or confined by what we believe we should see.


After embracing our awakening and being guided by the masters of wisdom we may experience enlightenment. Enlightenment is an experience that brings awakening into being, creating a life of ease, trust, truth, love, and joy. Enlightenment may come as a moment of insight and beauty. Enlightenment is a state of being that must be experienced. It is a knowing that fills the entire being and all levels of consciousness from the cellular level to the soul level and every part of being in between. It may last only a second, but that is long enough to bring about healing to consciousness. Sustaining enlightenment as a permanent state of being is not common, nor is it necessary for mastery.


Mastery comes after enlightenment has infused all levels of being with understanding, knowing, insight, and the wisdom of not only the mysteries of being but a profound self-awareness. Mastery is obtained by a deep connection of all that is and by learning and following the Sacred Laws, as do the Ascended Masters, the Angelic Realms, and the Star Nations. We become masters through implementing the Sacred Laws into our daily lives, diving deep into self-awareness, embracing our psychic senses, and releasing confining belief systems. Masters know how to create miracles, live in synchronistic harmony with all of life, and love without constraint or condition.

As we embrace this time of possibilities know that we are not doing this entirely on our own, our Spirit Guides and Angels are here to support and help us every step of the way.

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The Truth of Who You Are

The truth of who you are is the spark of God in your soul experiencing the world.

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To my way of thinking, the truth of who you are is on purpose. The heavens, the cosmos, God, Goddess, Earth or whatever power that created you, made you just so. You are the perfect creation of eons of evolution coupled with a wish made by divinity.

The truth of who you are became into being and is held by all of life to continue just as you wish to be. The truth of who you are is the spark of God in your soul experiencing the world.  Divinity lives through you just as you are. Your strangeness, your quirks, your sameness, or your originality are all meant to be expressed and lived.

Living the truth of who you are is healing, loving and courageous. Who you are is who you are supposed to be. The Earth supports you because she created you exactly right.

If we think who we are is wrong, we are believing a lie. It is not wrong to be what you were born to be. It is perfect.

When we think others are wrong to be who they are, if we think there is a flaw in their race, gender identity, sexuality, financial or social status, then we are also denying the perfection with us.

Allowing the truth of others with acceptance will show you the beauty of the truth within you.

Honor the truth of who you are, and you will be guided by the power of grace.

Why to NOT be Psychic

Being mindful of when you are turning on your senses to feel into a situation or person is key to having a clear connection with Spirit.

Audio version below:

“Why to NOT be Psychic” audio version by Janet Kadow

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It has taken years for me to perfect not reading people, not tuning in to people, and not psychically checking in when I am worried about someone. Now, my boundaries are clear and I have an abundance of energy and clarity when I do a reading by request and permission. There is nothing I can think of that is more intrusive than someone psychically reading you without your permission. Those who are untrained and undisciplined with their gifts read people unconsciously.

I don’t psychically read people unless we are actually in a session and only on topics that are brought up. So if there is something going on with you, you need to tell me, no matter how close we are, I will not know about it unless you tell me.

If there is something you want to hide from me, it will always remain hidden. I can’t dive into your secrets without your knowledge and permission.

Why would I not want to know if someone I love is in distress or needs help? Why would I regulate my psychic senses to such an extreme? Why would I not use my gifts to help people even if they don’t ask for help?

The primary reason is that it depletes my energy every time I use my psychic senses if I don’t have intention or purpose for using them. This will drain me to exhaustion. Going to the store, a party, or a concert can exhaust psychics, because they are very busy tuning into others and get depleted just by the power they use to do this.

The next reason is the Law of Reflection, which is like karma but subtler. What I do to others I allow done to me. I have no defenses of being read against my will if I’m psychically snooping around other people. Whatever protection you have in place to keep your energy field clear is compromised every time you sneak a peek at someone else. You will not only be susceptible to another’s psychic spying, but you will also be vulnerable to picking up all kinds of negative energy because you have compromised your defenses.

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The third reason is that I will most likely be wrong. The chances of being wrong when psychically tuning into another without their request and permission is very high. I have never had a random reading about me be accurate. I have had very well-meaning people say they have a message to give me without my request. In those unsolicited readings I have gotten dire warnings about my future or some ‘important’ advice. They were always wrong.

If you are being a very busy-body nosy-rosy and interfering with your well-meaning not-so-sage advice then you are breaking the Law of Non-Interference which holds karmic consequences. This is the fourth reason I do not read others without their permission. If I get a psychic ‘hit’ and tell the person about it who has not asked for my help, anything they do in response to that is on me. I could have possibly just interfered with the very important part of their life path, and now I have to deal with it. How that manifests is anybody’s guess, but I think it is better to not take on more karma to deal with.

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The final and most important reason not to have my psychic button on “ON” all the time is that breaking the Sacred Laws makes it more difficult to align with Spirit, with the Guides and with the Angels, making access to the highest wisdom elusive. Personally, I want to always have access to truth, wisdom and love as much as possible. This is important for my behalf and for my students and clients. I must be impeccable in my integrity with the Sacred Laws of Non-Interference and the Law of Free Will, and be mindful of the Law of Reflection, to get the information that will help us all live up to our potential. Without getting information like that, what good are the psychic senses, anyway?

Being mindful of when you are turning on your senses to feel into a situation or person is key to having a clear connection with Spirit. Keeping your psychic senses to yourself, being aware of those energy boundaries and how you are focusing energy is the first step to building on your gifts.