Getting A Reading

Protecting Kids Who See Dead People

She first came to me after her 5 year old had a dream about his long dead great-grandfather. “He never met his great-grandpa but he described him perfectly. Now he is seeing and talking to people who aren’t there”. Her worried tones sounded so familiar to me. She is concerned that her son will be haunted or be surrounded by evil spirits. She doesn’t see the spirits and her son only sees them when he is outside. Sometimes they frighten him and he will point to a stranger describe him in great detail when no one is there. As we talked I asked her about her experiences with Spirit.

“I saw my grandma come to me the night she passed, I was about ten at the time. I never told any one. And as a teenager, I had a dream that my friend would die in a car crash, it happened the next day. But that is all, I haven’t had any premonitions after that.”

One bad experience and we shut down our psychic senses. Now her son is talking to dead people and she wants to help him stay open and stay safe. Dana came to me for psychic training. She is ready to explore the unseen but confused on how her own psychic senses work, if she even has any. She’s been curious about spiritual things and has been exploring different ways of being spiritual in a casual way for many years. She already does guided meditations, yoga and has read some books on growing psychically but wants to go deeper. With her son now showing gifts she feels an urgency to understand what is going on and how to help him.

The first thing I do is set intention and ask my guide for help. He is a master teacher and has taught how to help people grow in their abilities. He shows me her son and what is going on with him, he then later will show me how to begin helping Dana.tiger

“We will first begin by connecting to your son’s guardians and ask them for protection,” I begin. Since her son is so young we must we must work with the guides and guardians to assist. I tell her about guardian animals and talk about his guides. I work with his guides creating a strong bubble of protection and I see one very prominent guide as I do this. It is his animal totem. I can feel the relief on the other end of the phone as she sees the veracity of what I am saying. Her son has a favorite stuffed animal that he loves. He never goes to sleep without it. A white tiger his grandma gave him. This is the same as the animal guardian I described! She now sees how the physical world mirrors the spirit world, especially with children. I ask Dana to imagine the tiger, to see it in her mind’s eye and describe it for me. Her description matches mine so we are ready to help her help her son.

“At a quiet time of day ask your son to close his eyes and imagine he sees his stuffed tiger.” I instruct. “Now imagine his tiger is real. Have him describe his tiger for you. Is it big or small? Does it look mean or kind? Once he has a good visual on the tiger ask him to imagine he’s petting the tiger. What does the tiger do when he pets him? Now ask him to imagine the tiger can talk, what does the tiger say to him? Once the tiger has said something now you can have him ask the tiger to protect him. Ask the tiger to keep away any one he doesn’t want around him.” We continue to talk for some time as I answer her questions about how this works. And then she feels ready to help her son keep away dead people with the help of his guardian animal.

Now that her mommy concerns have been addressed, it’s time to help her bring her psychic senses to their potential. Throughout her training I will keep tabs on how her son is doing with his tiger and coach her through his changes as we work on her abilities.

Need help in understanding and growing your abilities? Contact Janet Blessings for more help and information! lightstoneacademy@gmail.com, 619-866-4405

Personal information in this story is altered to protect the privacy of the subject. No writing, readings, advice, teachings or healing are to be construed as a substitute for medical or legal care or as legal or medical advice.

Belief and Faith

Worlds upon worlds upon worlds exist. When we cling to belief we limit our view, narrowing it to a singular point. It is like Faithfocusing on a single star and believing that is the only one in existence, being unable to see the grand limitless cosmos.

Belief is hard to change. Have you ever tried to change some one’s beliefs? Have you ever changed your own? People build upon their beliefs creating mountains of their reality. Massive immobile mountains.

No singular belief system can hold the total of the Truth since belief narrows its view of reality.

Faith is the wisdom of not knowing and not believing in a singular truth. Faith is trusting there is more to life than we can comprehend. When we open up to faith it is like seeing the vast cosmos for the first time and we understand that life can create itself into any form at any moment. Faith brings us into the vast limitlessness of being, and we can easily move our mountains of belief out of our way and walk freely the path of our own creation.

If you have faith as small as a mustard seed, you can say to this mountain, ‘Move from here to there,’ and it will move. Nothing will be impossible for you.”

Release belief and act on faith.

How to Get Divine Insight

Today we ask for divine insight.

It is simple to have and every one is worthy of it.

Simply do this: Sit quietly for a couple of seconds. Then take a moment to wonder what spirit would say to you if you could hear them. Then take a moment to ask spirit to give you insight to help you in your life. Once you have sincerely asked this with your heart, just go about your day like normal.

Don’t keep asking for insight, but you can wonder in the back of your mind what it would be like to have it.

When you go to sleep thank spirit for the insight. (Even if you didn’t think you got one.)

Tomorrow morning reflect on what came to you to help you. Did it come in a dream? Did it come in a thought? Did it come as a feeling? Did it come as a vision?

Do this on a daily basis even if you feel you are not getting anything and soon you will see how spirit is communicating with you.

A Powerful Secret

Secrets have power. Secrets contain energy. Secrets change the energy of those who carry them. Secrets are toxic. Finding out something which has been hidden or sharing something you have been hiding is cleansing. Sharing your secrets is most powerful healing you can receive. That is why we seek out relationships with those we can trust, those who will love us even with our secret. We need the power of healing all the hidden aspects of ourselves. We need to move on from the secrets of the past to be free to live in the now and to do this we need to share what is holding us back. We need to express the shame of the past to be free of it.

If we don’t find a way to share our hidden selves; our toxic secrets will manifest into areas of our lives that will create disease, dysfunction and addiction that will make it very difficult to heal and may even carry on through the generations. The darker the secret, secrets that carry shame, carry a dark powerful energy and can behave similarly to what some would call a curse.

The New Earth cannot tolerate secrets, they must be revealed for us to live in the 5th World of Peace. There will be no more secrets in this New World. It is already manifesting. See it in social media where all that is ‘private’ is now public. See it with the NSA having massive data on the most intimate aspects of our lives. See it in blogs where people discuss the most vulnerable parts of themselves.

When we lived in small tribal villages there could be no secrets, lovers couldn’t cheat without the whole village knowing, spouses couldn’t abuse without every one knowing. No one could steal from you without you finding out who it was. With the internet bringing us together in an intimate web, we are now in a global village – whether you like it or not.

Now it is time to ask yourself how you can safely reveal your secrets. Who could you tell and how can you reveal yourself in a way that feels safe?  Ask yourself if there is something you are actively doing that you think you need to keep a secret. If so think about the worst that could happen if it went public. Would it really be so bad?

When we share our secrets we find out a whole lot of people do or have done what it is we are hiding. Find someone you feel is safe to tell your secrets and feel your healing begin!

 

“Help” is a Four Letter Word

Janet BlessingsChrist said: “It is more blessed to give than receive”, Acts 20:35.  I don’t think this was a commandment or a rule. I don’t believe he was telling us to give, give, give and to avoid receiving. I see this statement as an observation. The giver has the power to make things better for someone else. That power is invigorating. Yet, it also gives the giver a chance to utilize their gifts to share their wisdom, or whatever they have been blessed with, like money or talent, to create change in the world. When we give we grow. When we give we grow spiritually, emotionally, financially, etc., in any arena that we give help in we also grow in. The giver is more greatly benefitted than the receiver.

The strange upside down fact is that when we ask for help we are giving in a most profound and generous way. When we ask for help we are calling upon another to share their blessings with the world to help the giver grow. As we receive the gift the Law of Reflection echoes through the universe to bless the giver. Isn’t that amazing? Think about those whose illness relies on another for assistance; people who are infirm and who need help day in and day out for survival, they are truly the most generous beings of the universe.  They are the blessed of the Angels and hold a sacred place in the realm of light, because their divine task is to help others by asking for help and in doing so create expansion on all levels of being for their helpers.

Asking for help from another is the greatest gift we can give them. Yet we avoid asking for help. We subconsciously see asking for help as giving power away. We fear giving our power away, we fear looking powerless or weak. Or we see ourselves as the helper not the one who needs help.  Yet the wise ones know that the energy exchange of giving and receiving is what generates life, love, and beauty on Earth – and they do not shy away from asking for help.

Think about what it feels like for you when asking for help. See yourself asking another for something you need or want. What does that feel like to you? Is there resistance to asking for help? If so then take a moment in silence with that resistance visioning receiving help and then vision the helper being blessed with more. Then take a moment to breathe that in and feel how that feels.  Asking for help may at first feel strange and weak, but with patience and practice it will feel like the most empowering and loving act you will ever do.

Yes, it is better to give then receive in this world, yet it is more generous to receive than to give. 

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On The Day You Were Born…

Before you came to life on Earth you met with your Spirit Guides and Angels in Heaven.

~ They asked you who you want to be then they mapped out your identity in the cosmos.  

~ Then they asked what you want to experience and then calculated your life lessons and experiences by the positions of the stars.

~ Then they asked what you want to do, so they found the perfect astrological timing for your birth to fulfill that purpose.

~ They found you the perfect parents to help you fulfill your desires and sent you down to Earth at exactly the right time and place to have what you wished for in life.

Yet as we live our lives it can get a bit muddled. For everything we want to experience there is an obstacle, for everything we want to do there is a barrier to its success, even our identities can be overcome by self-doubt. This may leave us feeling a bit lost, confused and frustrated at times.

The barriers, obstacles and even doubts have their purpose and in a roundabout way do help us get what we want. Yet it is easier to live life knowing what they are and how to overcome them. This is the key to doing what you came here to do with joy.

With the Life Path Reading we can see exactly what you mapped out to be, to learn and to do before you were born and we can see how to overcome the barriers and obstacles on your life’s path. Using Astrology, Tarot and the assistance of the Spirit Guides we can bring your life back into focus and on the path to fulfillment. This is a reading in four one hour sessions once a week via phone or Skype. Each session includes a minimal homework assignment to help you clear the way to living your potential. All you need is your accurate time/place/date of birth and an open heart.

“I have seen some amazing results in people who have taken this Life Path Reading from Janet Blessings. These sessions with Janet take you to the core where your soul originated and came into being. Once this is determined the corporeal intelligence comes forward and takes part in life again. The cells rearrange and align moving out of resistance and make conscious choices to live fully and freely as intended. This is very important for all of us as a society right now. Go for it with true gusto and you won’t regret it! Beatrex Quntanna, Psychic  

To set up your time contact Janet Blessings at 619-248-4082 or lightstoneacademy@gmail.com    

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Why Are We Here?

In the no-thing, in the void before the universe was born, there was a consciousness. It was the first thing to ever be.  It was in the dark silence with no sensation suspended in the eternal infinite emptiness.  This consciousness had a thought: I want to see myself. And it spoke “Let there be light”. It burst into pieces creating light beams throughout the void filling the void with light.  Now all the pieces of itself could be seen by itself. Now the consciousness could know itself.  The light beams had consciousness and could have thought and see each other, they too could split apart and create more light beams. The dance of light echoed in this place of no place continuing to show itself to itself in the light.

This was a place of no place it had no structure, no time, no physical life. The consciousness wanted to experience itself.  The consciousness said, “Let there be form”.  And the structure of the heavens was created and all spirit consciousness forms took their place. Now the consciousness could experience itself.  Consciousness could experience Love.

The heavens became abundant with creation through the Love and the Light. Now consciousness wanted to experience the non-eternal. And it said,  “Let there be life”.  And the material world was born as the breath of love infused matter with life. And the physical worlds grew and expanded into the infinite void.

The beams of light consciousness went into the matter to experience life in all forms possible, in all ways possible. There is no matter that is not infused with the infinite consciousness, or that was not created by the infinite consciousness. As the beams of light consciousness experienced life they grew and could create more, they created the Natural and Sacred Laws, they created systems of abundance and harmony, they created power and peace and they created joy and beauty.

Do You Really Want Enlightenment?

By Janet Blessings, Lightstone Academy

     All of life is an exploration and discovery of the truth of self. When we get a glimpse of that truth we find bliss.

The Cosmic YES!

         I once thought that if I could only channel I could get all the guidance I needed to live life easily, avoid problems and  attain spiritual enlightenment. Seventeen years after my spiritual journey began I can easily laugh at how wrong I was. My spiritual journey has been quite the opposite of easy. And when I look to others on the path, it is the same for them. So I ask you, do you really want to seek the truth? Do you really want to connect to the divine? Do you really want enlightenment?

WARNING: It will challenge you constantly and continually. It will be a trial physically, emotionally, spiritually, and mentally. AND it will be the best thing you have ever done, EVER. Rainbow

Those of us who chose the spiritual path chose the treacherous climb up a rocky slope, it is heartbreaking, it is exhausting it is full of perilous events, yet reaching the summit is a blessing beyond measure. We find comfort in Spirit helping us along, but each step is ours to take and each step is a choice to continue forward. Yet once started along this path one can never go back to the bottom, can never reverse the progress; one continues on to the top or dies trying. We may at times come upon another and help them along as we are able to while simultaneously keeping balance. Be aware the path is full of times to let go and allow another to forge their own way. Remain centered, help others along when able, focus on self when needed, and know that this path is guided by love.

When we have agreed to live a life guided by spiritual purpose, seek the Truth, asked to walk in harmony with the divine, we find that it is the opposite of an easy life as we must release all that is in our way to keep going forward. The blocks and barriers to the path of blissful harmony are past dysfunctions, wounds, abuse, and dis-empowering belief systems which may take great energy and effort to overcome. We must peel away layers of traumatic generational experience to find the core of love within ourselves. This is a life long dedication and needs much care and attention, yet the rewards along the way are glimpses of the truth and finding the divine within.

The more we release the painful past the higher we go on the path the more we see the view of eternal bliss and see what divinity sees.

To release what is in our way we must first know that it does exist, accept it and thank it. For each and every difficulty, painful remembrance or trauma we must look to the gift it brought us, fill our hearts with gratitude for the gift and see it as a blessing in order to continue on beyond the pain of it. We cannot carry resentment, judgment or regret on this path, they are too heavy of burdens and cause too much suffering to take along the rocky terrain. Those burdens will slow, hinder or stop of from going up to the summit. Yet you cannot let go of the burdens until you see how the events of your life, each and every one, was a blessing and when looking upon those events your heart is filled with gratitude.

The closer you get to the top the more you must be at peace with all your life. Make peace with who you are, make peace with who you have been, and make peace with all those you know. Once you are attuned to peace you shall go lightly through life and easily on the path of spirit toward the summit of bliss.

Watch Out! How Your Psychic Senses Can Get You In Trouble

by Janet Blessings

Janet Lightstone

Working with Spirit can cause a great high, so can doing readings, journeys, and mediation. We love to be in the ethers communing with the universal love and power of our spirit. When we do this part of our consciousness leaves our body to connect and get information. Even day dreams, fantasies, deep sleep dreaming can take us out of body.

As great as that feels, we have to be in our bodies to stay present to the now, to deal with day to day life, and to keep from living in chaos that can come for not being here now. Sorry to bring you down, but we have to live on planet Earth after all.

One of the most frequent comments I get is: “for a psychic you are so grounded”. Well, I must confess, not always…

I love being out of body as much as the next person. There are days when I am doing readings non-stop for hours. Then I have to go to the grocery store, make dinner and be a mom. I might feel totally present to do those things but once I start driving I might miss my street, forget what I need at the store, or drop something then I realize I am not as grounded as I think I am. When it is worse I could be clumsy, break things, run a red light, and more!

As you can see being ungrounded can be dangerous. You may know people who are ungrounded by their behavior like: they forget what they say, miss appointments, are frequently late, break things by accident, have frequent car accidents, can’t keep track of schedules or money. This can lead to a chaos filled life of always cleaning up their messes either with injuries, damaged property or financial crisis. They may be great fun to be around and have great wisdom to share but quietly you wonder why they always have such bad luck. It’s not bad luck, they are not in their body!

The long term effects of being ungrounded can be hyper-sensitivity, over emotional reactions, crankiness or even depression. Many psychic people are on anti-depressants. If it should get to that point the psychic senses can shut down and the psychic messages become muddled or lost all together.

Being grounded not only helps you with living a better day to day life but makes you a much clearer psychic!

When I notice that I’m not as in body as I think I am I can do many techniques to keep me in my body to do what I need to do without incident.

Quick ways to get back in body:

*Vigorously rub your hands together for one minute.

*Eat something – always have a small snack or nutrition bar near you and focus on the act of eating to bring you present.

*Drink something- It should be hot or cold to get the attention of your physical senses.

*Put your hands on the ground- focus on the energy coming up from the ground to your hands, wait at least one minute until you feel back in your body.

*Go barefoot in the dirt.

*Hug a tree

*Clean something

Visualizations to get back in body (these take a few minutes):

*Imagine cords of light going from the bottom of your feet and tailbone to the center of the earth.

*Imagine you are sinking into the deep nurturing soil of the earth until you are fully surrounded by it.

*Sit near a tree asking her for grounding, stay there until you feel fully in your body.

*Imagine you are growing roots that implant and firmly connect with the earth.

Things that help you stay grounded to keep in your space:

*Dark dense stones (carry one with you if possible)

*Plants

*Pets

*Kids – the most awesome grounders EVER!

You can try any or all of these things and use what works for you to stay present and enjoy life here on Mother Earth. That is why we are here after all.

Feel free to post any of your grounding techniques or experiences that occurred due to being ungrounded in the comments below or replying to this post.

5 Simple Steps to Working with Spirit

There is an easy way to work with Spirit and get what you want without too much effort. Spirit works under the Law of non-interference. That means that they cannot help you if you do not ask for it. They cannot make your life better or give you a miracle if you don’t ask them. They can easily take care of all your troubles, you just have to ask. But you must ask in a way that will bring your energy forward so that you can receive their help. If you ask for something you don’t believe can happen then you are not ready to receive the answer to your request.

Our Guide, Angel, The Universe, God, Spirit or however you perceive it is ready to help us if we follow some pretty simple steps.

  1. Gratitude. First be grateful for what you already have, if you are breathing and your heart is beating you have something to be grateful for. If you still can’t think of anything to be grateful for simply say aloud “Thank You”. Practice gratitude for even the difficult things in life and life will be a lot easier.
  2. Belief. Only ask for that which you believe can come to you. If you are asking for something you think is impossible for you to have, or asking for it to test out spirit’s existence then you will be disappointed.
  3. Prayer. You must intentionally take a moment to ask. Don’t just think it in passing. Stop what you are doing and say it out loud. You can ask for anything no matter how small or insignificant, even a parking place. Our guides want to help in everything! Ask for help and make them happy.
  4. Gratitude. Be grateful for getting what you asked for before it happens. Gratitude opens the gateway to receiving and accepting what we ask for. Thank Spirit for what you are asking for. This is a very important part of the asking. If I ask for a parking space I say: “Help me find a space at the shopping center easily. Thank you for the great parking space.” It is best to ask for things like parking spaces and clear traffic well before you leave home.
  5. Faith. Once you ask for something let it go and know it is so. Faith is knowing something is true with no evidence. Know in your heart your prayer will be answered without a doubt. If you worry it might not happen or put any negative thoughts or feelings about getting it you will block the energy. It cannot come to you if you have attachment or worry. Let it go, put it out of your mind, forget about it, and go about your day.

As you begin to work with this structure start with things that are simple and personal to you. Don’t ask for something for some one else, because when we work with Spirit we must follow their laws of non-interference. Start small and work up to the big life changes. Take note of how you feel at each step of the process make sure your feelings are in line with your words.